Wednesday, February 28, 2007
Life Trumps Speaking
First off, let me say that I love speaking to library groups. I find it energizing and inspiring and a great way to remain connected with the profession, giving me the in-person interaction I often lack when working out of my home.
But... if you invite me to come speak to your group this fall or next winter/spring, chances are I'm going to say no.
The main reason for this is our ongoing adoption saga -- since we have no clear idea of dates at this point, only could-bes, I'm erring on the side of caution. I don't think it's fair to commit to preparing presentations and traveling at a time when we might be bringing a new little person into our lives, and want to spend more one-on-one time with Jake before this happens.
Like Deborah Ng, though, it's hard for me to say no, especially to work I find both interesting and challenging. I also wonder about perceptions and burning bridges, but need to set priorities, and what has to give at this point is the travel. So if I say/have said "no" to you, it's a no for now -- not forever!
But... if you invite me to come speak to your group this fall or next winter/spring, chances are I'm going to say no.
The main reason for this is our ongoing adoption saga -- since we have no clear idea of dates at this point, only could-bes, I'm erring on the side of caution. I don't think it's fair to commit to preparing presentations and traveling at a time when we might be bringing a new little person into our lives, and want to spend more one-on-one time with Jake before this happens.
Like Deborah Ng, though, it's hard for me to say no, especially to work I find both interesting and challenging. I also wonder about perceptions and burning bridges, but need to set priorities, and what has to give at this point is the travel. So if I say/have said "no" to you, it's a no for now -- not forever!
